bring it up in the conversation. "I'm sure your boyfriend would like to have sex with you more often to relieve some of the stress you have on display during your rants against our supervisor." Most of my relationships have come from people I met in school or work. It depends upon your job and how much you like it and how mature the person you're dealing with is. Some people, well usually chicks, go nuts after break-ups and start acting weird first. I just go on and act like there's no problem. If your job is your career then ya gotta weigh the options of whether it's worth it. If you find that you can't stop imagining having rough monkey sex with your co-worker then go for it. Rules are made to be broken when you can get away with it and you aren't harming any innocent by-standers. You might be screwing yourself up, but it beats sharpening your number 2 pencil while watching lesbian fingering sex or strap-on and ride 'em cowboy intercourse. If you need your job to survive and your co-worker's got some influential pals in management, proceed with caution. Otherwise try to get it on in the supply room closet (be careful with the janitor supplies though). Good luck...
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