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Im not a therapist or anything, but I've been in your situation and so have all of my friends (some of which are going through it right now). First off, if she's changing there's nothing you can do and, quite frankly, trying to keep a relationship with a woman who doesn't want one isn't going to do you or her any good. But don't worry about what will do her good, just worry about yourself. She's not going to care about you, and you cant make her. There are ways to get her to want you back... like ignoring her, acting like she doesn't matter anymore and blowing her off left and right... it actually works nine times out of ten (dont ask me why, but a lot of women like being treated like garbage, and not only does it trip their trigger, but with time it can trip yours too! haha!). But anyway, right now it sounds like she's playing games with you, and in order to win you have to play on her level. But, if she's the kind of chick who's out to play games, she's not going to make a very good "future prospect", now is she? You have a right be upset and/or angry, and don't let her tell you otherwise. She's screwing you over. But clinging to a dead relationship will hurt you more and more as time goes on. Just forget about her. And if I were you, if she does come crawling back, I'd stomp on her like a bug and tell her to get lost. Then you'll have the last laugh and she'll just be some old, faded memory in the back of your mind when you're with your new woman who's actually worth something. And you wont "love her" forever... once you tell yourself it's over and move on, you'll get over it in a surprisingly quick amount of time. Forget about her! Get someone who's worth something and secure enough in themselves not to change into some strung-out art Melanie Griffith. Well, good luck.
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