03/27/08: Everyone's got kinda the right idea

I definitely agree with the idea of de-sensitizing yourself. Talk to her a little each day- just ask her how her day was and then listen. We LOVE that. Many a man has won me over by discussing books or films that I had liked.

Then, when you feel better, casually mention getting a cup of coffee, OR "I'd like to go see the new (Insert actor's name here) film but I have no one to go with" ..."Hey, maybe you'd like to come" That has also worked on me.

Once you're in, it's like a song that gets stuck in your head. She'll think about you. You'll pop into her mind.

Then you're home free.

Just be cool- I know that encompasses a lot of things but the way you were describing how you felt about her I know for sure that you've got to at least TRY.

You find her to be pretty. You can't stop thinking about her, even though you've tried. Now that's romantic. Pretty damn irresistible. Any woman would want that.

Best of luck- take your time- and I REALLY hope it works for you! :)

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