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please don't take this the wrong way. i'm not trying to be mean right now. i don't want to start any flamewars or put anyone down. i just thought you might like to know my thoughts. remember, just because you disagree with me, doesn't mean i am wrong. if you decide to send the fire and brimstone my way, you're just as bad as all those tight- assed, thick headed, narrow-minded republican hypocrites and i do not waste my time with bible-thumping door-knocking idiots.
it has been my experience that pretty much all men who find themselves attracted to me, will not pursue the issue after they find out i am married simply because they are afraid of the (my) hubby. not because of the moral values their mothers so loveingly taught them. trust me, if i had a nickle for every time i heard them say, "wow, there's just something about you. i think i'm in love. can i call you sometime?" i could afford the med school of my choice. once they do find out i'm married they back away REAL quick. most of them mutter something about not wanting their heads blown off. that's the extent of their family values. some of them tell me it's okay and what my hubby doesn't know won't hurt him. when i used to dance, guys would be on a business trip and show me pictures of their families, their newborn daughters, their wives of 25 years or so, their sons who were my age, right before they asked me how much for the night. when i explained i was taken, they would shrug their shoulders and say "so what? so am i". sometimes i would play with them and make them think i was even remotely interested just to see how much money i could get out of them (my favorite: okay, you wanna get fucked, baby? i'll fuck ya. give me half now. haha now you're fucked). then when they were waiting at the front door, i'd slip out the back. either that or if hubby was waiting for me, i'd just walk right past them and ignore them as i'd slip into his arms and walk away. serves them right, the dirty birdies.
anyway, a lot of times these guys would pretend they weren't that bad. they would hide under the guise that they never ever came to these places and they were just here for the bachelor party. they never in their life expected to meet someone like me. i was just so different. not like the other girls (yeah, right). and then it would be all downhill from there. i'd leave with their money and they would leave with a hardon. an even trade, don't you think? i'm sure they'd go home and screw the crap out of their own wives while all the while screaming "simone'! simone'!"
"uh, baby? who's simone'?"
my point is, as drawn out as it may be, is are you guys who give nick shit about this all single? have you ever been married? have you ever had a girlfriend? have you ever looked at another woman if you have been? have you ever thought about that playboy model who was probably engaged or married or had a boyfriend herself? have you ever LOOKED at your neighbor's wife and just thought "damn"?
nick did not have sex with this married woman. he may have had thoughts about her and wanted to, but he didn't and the fact is, he is human. not a saint. i'm sure he didn't wake up one morning and say "gee, i wonder if i could fall in love with a MARRIED woman today. yeah, that sounds like a dandy idea. i wish i would have thought of that one before. nick old chap, i think you've outdone yourself this time. congradulations". you're going to flame him for being human? for flaws he's already admitted to? what's the point in that? hey, i've got lots of flaws (look, here's my bare ass. oh, sorry, that's flawless). sure, people got hurt but se la ve. i'm sure he's sorry and will never do it again if he's that hurt. and frankly, i'm sorry for you guys too if you've never had an impure thought or done something stupid. perfect people are dull, boreing people who lead dull boreing lives and can't learn from their mistakes because they don't make any. and usually people of this calliber die alone because no one wants to be around someone who acts so much better than everyone else. think about it. would you want to spend the rest of your days with thomas carder? i'm not saying what nick did was the best thing. but it does show that he's human and probably a lot more interesting than you guys. so lay off.
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