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"And I don't think it's right for others to maliciously attack someone who has done no real harm. That just makes them bullies."
CFL..I am not ridiculing anyone in this particular thread. I am simply offering my personal wants/needs to someone that asked for assistance. I do feel a lil sorry for him for the fact that he doesn't show much self-esteem.
What I seek, I do usually find, and have. I do not date fat, ugly, poor, bus-riding guys. That is not my style, sure they may have great qualities, but that is not what I consider attractive. A great mind, a great sense of humor all are important, but so is a job and money and good looks. I would be rather embarrassed if my boyfriend told me he was in love with me, cuz I was ugly but had a great mind. Since I do not wish to hear that I take care of myself, have expensive taste, and work out regularly.
I do not approach or allow myself to be approached by guys that do not first meet my standards as far as physical appearances. I am sorry if that is cruel. *I am trying to sound too snotty*. In my case, I am not appraoched by fat guys anyway, so I can not relate, or comment on these type of men that have an inner beauty, but no obvious outter beauty from my perspective.
The five things that I mentioned, are things that I look for in men. When I say Men, I mean ones that have already caught my eye with their appearance first. If you do not pass stage one, sorry you would not have the opportunity to allow any of the other things I seek to be displayed. I am sure there are fat, unemployed men out there that enjoy bridge jumping, but physically I do not think they could keep up with me.
Also, glasses are really not that big of a deal. However, why do you insist on wearing big, square ones? Just because you must have a thick lens, does not mean you have to have a thick rim. Try one of the wire rim glasses, maybe ask your friends to come along so that they can help you decide what looks best on your face.
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