06/06/1999: Sweetness...

Posted By: monique


So now should I applaud you for your arrogant way of communicating. No, I would much rather continue on the assmuption, that I am a complete bitch. This whole discussion was about what we sought in our significant other. Yes, what I seek is different from you, and vice versa.

Granted, I am new here, so I guess I am an easy target, because I will have the tendancy to perhaps reveal too much or be too honest. I have not said that you were wrong for feeling the way you do, but I don't think I am wrong either. the point is well taken that we should see people for who they are. I can not help the way that I feel though. I also can not help that I am attracted to people, men and women that are good-looking. So because I see an outer beauty before an inner beauty I am arrogant, and not real? Not that I need to tell you anything about who I am or what I do, but I must inform you that people 'such as myself' really exist.

Calling me a bitch does not make me inferior to you. I am sure you have some attributes, that some may find pleasing, although by the way you wish to continue to have a discussion I can not see it. I have read all of the post, and have been open minded to everyone opinions, because I do not know anything about them. Maybe, you are the one that does not have an open mind, instead you would rather say well if they don't think like me than they don't aren't real. Come on, I would think someone of your age would know better, and have something a little more intelligent to say, instead of 'bitch'.

And, don't accuse me of saying that I am better than you because of what I prefer, it is MY choice to date who I want. Sure I have a lil sympathy for those out there that may have not lead a good life/childhood. I am sorry, but I for one have been out of school for quite sometime, and that part of my life is over. I do however, notice that you did not make any comments about the 'fat'chick that I work with, that bashed me because I am on the thinner side. You probably choose not to comment on that since that is ACCEPTABLE for people to do to people 'like me'.

You find it hard to believe that people like me exist, yet I know people like you are real, and cruel and for some reason have this built up anger for 'people like me.' Get over it, you fall in love with who you want, and live in your 'perfect' world, and I will do the same. The only difference is that I never have to wish that I was you, and living your life.....becuase to have that much anger would destroy all the beauty that I do have....


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